Growth

Obviously there are many types of growth the average witch goes through. You grow in body, mind, spirit, and more. Everything that enters your life, be it good or bad, is a point of growth for you or another. Let's say someone enters your life and you can't possibly grow from them, perhaps you were meant to help them grow.

When growth (for you or the other) is no longer available, then you'll part ways. I know it's sad, but at this time the growth will be finished as well as the interaction. A good example of this is a close friend that you no longer talk to or care for as much as you once did, eventually the two of you stop talking or interacting at all. You never forget that friend, but both of you has grown as much as possible from the friendship and are moving on to more growth.

However, there are some growths that never end. A good example of *this* would be that close friend that you're still as close to today as you were when the friendship first began. My theory of this is multiple. The two of you are constantly growing with and because of each other. Another thought is that your spirits are connected, either because you've been close in a previous life or because they are part of your life lesson.

A warning though, not all things are meant to be dealt with. Some of them may just be making you grow so that you stand up for yourself. If you don't feel improvement from the event or person perhaps you are meant to learn to cut ties from it. A good example would be a neighbor that is always inconveniencing you. The growth here is for you to have strength to say "enough is enough" and stand up for yourself. You may still be able to help them grow, but if no matter what you do the person is constantly bringing you down then there is no growth available there.